Lower wages, higher cost of living, unemployment, property taxes, taxes on the poor, pensions being cut, austerity measures: these are the subjects that monopolize conversations among friends today. Surprisingly, everyone agrees!
These past years something has started to change in the way we perceive things, in the way we think and in the way we react. The financial crisis, besides all the sufferings, seems to have triggered something positive in our society, something that we all needed: simplicity and solidarity.
There is a beauty and clarity that comes from simplicity that we had forgotten in our thirst for intricate solutions.
Yes, I am sure that this financial crisis is changing our personal behavior and this change may very well change our whole society. In these difficult times, full of uncertainties, disillusionment and worries, we have the opportunity to come closer to one another , to show solidarity – a word long forgotten – to empower “us” as opposed to “I” and to say NO to social isolation – nobody alone any more, nobody helpless anymore!
We have started investing in our relationships with our family and our fellow human beings, proving that the uncertainty, the fear and our common agony for the future during these confusing times can be faced with a smile, a helping hand, a warm dish of food to those in need.
We build deep and loving relationships by doing simple things together, like family dinners, home evenings and by just having fun together. In all relationships love is really spelled t-i-m-e, time. We talk with, rather than about, each other. We learn from each other, and we appreciate our differences as well as our commonalities.
And from these manifestations of human solidarity, let’s try and win back our emotional wealth which was absent from our lives these past years : emotionally wealthy societies always remain rich regardless of the difficulties and never ever go bankrupt!
No man is an island entire of itself. Each is a piece of the continent, a part of the main. (John Donne)